STUDY HARD. LOVE HARD. PLAY HARD.

Dad came home just now and decided to give me a lecture on my future, what kind of jobs i shld take, what kind of boyfriend i shld bring home and when i shld start giving them allowances.. I know it isn't right for me to think this way, but come on~ i'm only 20 this year, why are they pressurizing me to alr start thinking of the path that i wna take in th future. I'm the kind of person who'll take one step at a time, and not the kind who'll plan like 5 or 10 years ahead. I really cannot do that, it's just not who i am. But anyway, i really gotta agree on the fact that they ain't young anymore.. Perhaps all they want to see is their own daughters being successful in life, be in the right career (that earns alot of $$$) and ultimately marry the right guy. Which parents wouldn't want their own children to take this path?? But reality isn't so simple, sometimes we think we're in the right career because it's what we all wna do.. Take for eg, i'm really interested in Public Relations and Marketing. But all these doesn't guarantee me a job that earns alot of $$$ right??? I don't know.. And well, we'll meet guys whom parents' would definitely not approve of, but love comes at an unexpected time; and most definitely, you fall in love with unexpected people. I'd never expected myself to have taken a liking to Y, but y'all know such things are hard to say. The time you spent tgt with each other is crucial; whether you click with one another; whether you share the same interests etc.. You don't expect to just fall in love with maybe the CEO of your company (earns big bucks, considerate, filial etc) right? Love itself is something that nobody can really explain.. Some say it's love when there's trust, honesty, mutual love etc. But for others, love may be something else. No one can really define what love is. So yep, after typing so much, if you still do not get my drift.. What i'm trying to bring across is the fact that life is unexpected, there are so many things that are unpredictable, so hard to tell what's gna happen next.. But what we all have to do is to take one step at a time, embrace and treasure each moment and not worry about what the future holds. Can you imagine if we all worry about how the world will end in 2012?!?!? Optimistic people will make full use of their time now and enjoy, do the craziest things and not regret anything else. Pessimistic people on the other hand, will start worrying about how the world will actually end in 2012, and maybe panicking?? I don't know.. But what's the point, if the world's gna end then let it end. Study hard, love hard, play hard. At least you've alr done things that you'll not regret what, right? Alright, time for dinz with family :)

A picture to end things off :)